Video: How To Stop Having The Same Argument
Most arguments last about a minute, but some arguments can last for days, weeks, or even months. They also can show up over and over again, and when they do, they often get more intense each time they re-appear.
Video: Girlfriend Is Ignoring Me, What Do I Do?
Why would you be in a relationship where you're being ignored by the person who is supposed to love you! Jan and Monika tackle this question in this Relationship 911.
Video: How Should I Deal With my Girlfriend's Insecurity?
Jan and Monika reveal the Do's and Don’ts on how to navigate your partner's insecurities and avoid the things that may make your partner feel more insecure.
Video: How To Have Delicate Conversations
Sometimes people are so nervous about having delicate conversations that they avoid them. In this Relationship 911, Jan and Monika offer 3 techniques on how to talk to your partner without offending them.
Video: Should You Share Your Past Baggage
When starting a new relationship, at what point should you bring up your past baggage? In this episode, Jan and Monika disagree about whether or not it's healthy to share your past baggage in a new relationship
Video: Can A Relationship Survive Political Differences?
Jan and Monika answer one of the toughest questions they have received yet. They tackle not only politics, but opposing opinions about anything in general.
Video: Why Doesn't My Partner Say I Love You?
In this episode of Relationship 911, Jan and Monika share their personal love languages and deconstruct the reason why your partner might not say I Love You all the time.
Video: Helping My Partner Have Less Arguments With Their Parents
When your partner has a challenging relationship with their parents, what can you possibly do to help them? Jan and Monika discuss this sensitive topic and share why it’s a bad idea to help your partner.
Video: How To Listen When The Tone Isn't Nice
How do you let them know their tone is not working for you? This episode of Relationship 911 takes a surprising turn when Monika shares something personal to Jan as he handles it in a way that you can do to your partner as well.
Video: How To Get Your Partner To Talk With You
Have you ever wondered why your partner doesn't talk often, and you're bothered by it? Jan and Moinka shares their experiences and share tips on how to give more room for your partners to talk.
Video: How To Deal With Distracted Partners
Do you find that every time you want to tell your partner something important, they're looking down at their phone? Jan and Monika provide some suggestions on how to deal with a distracted partner!
BLOG: The Psychology Behind Fighting and How to Stop
What do we do when it seems that fighting has become the fabric of our relationships, interwoven in a string of misunderstanding and desperation to fight it, fix it or flee from it?
Are you sick of being locked up with your partner? You’re not alone! NBC's California Live's Amber Pfister talks with Monika about how to keep the peace and improve your relationship during the quarantine.